Unfortunately as blunt, open and naked as I can be, I DON’T KNOW! Why? Because I’ve come across that person in my lifetime and I didn’t have the courage to tell him. I took the dude approach and didn’t even speak when I saw him the next day.
My ordeal, which was a horrific experience by the way, was a one night stand. So it was easy for me to act like I didn’t see him then give him the “stank face” when he had the nerve to walk over to me and ask why I didn’t speak. However, what do you do when you’ve taken the time to get to know someone, you really like them but the “BIG” moment turns out to be an ity bity moment??
This can actually go for men and women. I’m sure men have come across that woman that was as boring as a dead fish. How easy is it FOR REAL to look that person in the eyes and say “Bae, this ain’t happening”, “Sweetie, this ain’t cuttin’ it” or “Boo, this ain’t hot”??? This is different from the partner who just had an off night due to stress or other reasons. I’m talking about someone who falls short (no pun intended) each and every time.
Is bad sex a deal breaker? I suppose if we all waited until marriage, we would only have one partner and nothing or no one to compare to. Unfortunately that isn’t always the case and this is a very real issue for some people.
As I said earlier, I don’t know the answer because I didn’t have the guts. However, if you’re as real as you claim to be, give us your feedback and as always…..KEEP IT NAKED!