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Black Women Don’t Like Being Black!

~Shemeka Michelle Dafucq! I can’t take it anymore. Some people will say I have no right to stand in judgment of Lil’ Kim and her constant skin bleaching. However, it’s MY blog and I’ll express my opinion if I want to! I will not sit by quietly while I watch black women promote self-hate as being fabulous! I’m not sure …

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My 11-year Old Daughter Wants Butt Implants

  My daughter walked in my room and asked me how she looked. Then she hopped up on my bed so that she could see a full body image of herself in the mirror on my dresser. She had on jeggings that were obviously stuffed to make her butt look bigger. I laughed and shook my head but she was …

“I Have Trust Issues” The Ultimate Drama Queen Statement!

  Ladies, men absolutely hate when you constantly accuse them of things they aren’t doing! How do I know? Because we absolutely hate that shit too! Charissa Jones said it best; “the only thing worse than an insecure woman is an insecure ass man”! If I hear one more person throw around the term “I have trust issues”, I just may …

America’s Obsession with Being PHAT!

~Shemeka Michelle    I’m not exactly sure when I first heard the word PHAT. It was probably in middle school used by a group of semi-cool (hahaha don’t try and come for me) guys that called themselves the Bally Boys. They made it very clear that it wasn’t the usual fat that meant overweight. There was no guessing that for …

ONE Relationship Red Flag You Should Never Ignore

~Shemeka Michelle    INSECURITY – uncertainty or anxiety about oneself; lack of confidence. I’m amazed that the definition reads “anxiety about oneself”. What’s even more amazing to me is how this anxiety and lack of confidence can be transferrable in relationships. When you’re in a relationship with a person that is insecure, they may ask a question that appears as …

Cut the crap! Who are you trying to convince?!?!

NGSC: Kenita Stubbs When all else fails, instead of owning up to your bullshit, you take the easy way out and search for sympathy, pretend to be victimized, use past trials and burdens to compensate for your truth! While you may draw some people to entertain your insecurities and have them play the violins while you sing your self-made personal …

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How to Keep Your Woman from Cheating!

Have you ever been cheated on? Most people have no problem saying they have been wronged. However, many people won’t admit that they’ve cheated. Well I admit that I’m not perfect. I’ve cheated! I’ll also admit that I cheated because I was insecure. Of course I could go into a lot of detail to try and justify it but the …

#TBT: You Ain’t Real! (12/10/13)

~Shemeka Michelle Yes, I said it. As much as you claim to “keep it real”, nine times out of ten you probably don’t. As much as you claim to not care what others think, truth is you do. That’s why you alter your behavior in certain settings. Not in the sense of acting dignified but in perpetrating a fraud! You …

He MADE me look!

NGSC: Kenita Stubbs “NO HOMO” I often heard my teenage son and his friends say. It would always follow a comment describing an outfit or nice shoes another male had on or when they referred to someone having swag. In other words they were giving a compliment without being mistaken for being gay. Ladies, if you catch me staring at …

Thoughts from a molested mind…

NGSC: Kenita Stubbs There’s nothing like a woman’s body! Curvaceous hips, breast and all; nothing is like it I’m sure! I guess that’s what has men so mesmerized. However, what is so appeasing about a flat chest, bony, bare vagina and no ass at all?? What’s so appealing about a child? Why would an innocent; far from mature and years …