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BREAKING THE MOLD!

NGSC: Lasonja Marie   Sometimes I wonder whatever happened to me The older I got I disconnected from the things I love And I became who people wanted to see me be Sometimes you can get so far gone in the ideas of others and what they believe you are That you forget about who you are I’ve spent years …

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Black Women Don’t Like Being Black!

~Shemeka Michelle Dafucq! I can’t take it anymore. Some people will say I have no right to stand in judgment of Lil’ Kim and her constant skin bleaching. However, it’s MY blog and I’ll express my opinion if I want to! I will not sit by quietly while I watch black women promote self-hate as being fabulous! I’m not sure …

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My 11-year Old Daughter Wants Butt Implants

  My daughter walked in my room and asked me how she looked. Then she hopped up on my bed so that she could see a full body image of herself in the mirror on my dresser. She had on jeggings that were obviously stuffed to make her butt look bigger. I laughed and shook my head but she was …

I’m a Riot Starter!

  Hi Guyz and Girlz, Shemeka Michelle had the wonderful opportunity to interview with international trainer, consultant and coach, Dr. Taunya Lowe. Click the link below and be prepared to be encouraged and empowered! Learn how you can start a riot in your own life! Listen now. http://theriotstarterchat.drtaunyalowe.com/podcasts/episode-025-shameka-michelle/     Don’t miss future post. Subscribe now! [mc4wp_form id=”879″]

America’s Obsession with Being PHAT!

~Shemeka Michelle    I’m not exactly sure when I first heard the word PHAT. It was probably in middle school used by a group of semi-cool (hahaha don’t try and come for me) guys that called themselves the Bally Boys. They made it very clear that it wasn’t the usual fat that meant overweight. There was no guessing that for …

ONE Relationship Red Flag You Should Never Ignore

~Shemeka Michelle    INSECURITY – uncertainty or anxiety about oneself; lack of confidence. I’m amazed that the definition reads “anxiety about oneself”. What’s even more amazing to me is how this anxiety and lack of confidence can be transferrable in relationships. When you’re in a relationship with a person that is insecure, they may ask a question that appears as …

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Watch What YOU Say About ME!

Monday, August 4, 2014 On more than one occasion recently I’ve felt totally disrespected by the words that people allow to flow from their mouths concerning me. I was always taught that life and death is in the power of the tongue. Some people have shortened the meaning of that truth to the phrase “speak life”. As a writer, I’ve …

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#HEAUXFREE

~Shemeka Michelle As I sit in my bed, I look over to my baby girl sleeping peacefully. For the first time it dawns on me that I’m really NOT who I use to be! Sometimes we get so busy checking the list for things we don’t have or are yet to accomplish that we forget to notice the feats we’ve …

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Bow Down Bitches!

~Shemeka Michelle Beyoncé has been catching a lot of flak for her new persona. She’s too sexy! She’s too old to be talking about being “Drunk in Love”. I’m sure the same has been said about this blogsite. “Some of the topics are too racy” or “Look at the pictures” Why are women such haters especially of other women? Back to …

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Age Ain’t a Factor!

~Shemeka Michelle  I came across a picture from my ten years high school reunion. Only three words came to mind…..What the Hell??? What was I wearing and why did I look so old? That is the same question I ask as I scan social media and even some of my friends. Not necessarily old as in gray hair and wrinkles …