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We Had Sex for 15 Years and We Still Can’t Communicate

It amazes me that men and women can marry, swap spit and have sex for years then end up disliking each other. What blows my mind even more is when two people decide they are no longer compatible; somehow it means they shouldn’t communicate. I think that is complete bullshit! If I can take a moment as a blogger to …

Are YOU a Nigga?

As I walk my children into school, I pass a young woman sitting in a car that is blasting music with a lot of profanity. She’s puffing a cigarette and there’s a baby in the back seat. Her school age son gets out of the car looking like he dressed himself on the ride to school. She takes a pull …

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#HEAUXFREE

~Shemeka Michelle As I sit in my bed, I look over to my baby girl sleeping peacefully. For the first time it dawns on me that I’m really NOT who I use to be! Sometimes we get so busy checking the list for things we don’t have or are yet to accomplish that we forget to notice the feats we’ve …

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I Got the Juice!

~Shemeka Michelle Sounds like a cocky statement but if you don’t know what you’re working with, who will? For a couple of weeks I’ve been hearing “Trim the Fat”. What exactly does this mean? I’m already thin. As a matter of fact, I’m on a mission (although slack at times) to gain ten pounds. What fat did I possibly need …