NG Contributor: Kenita Stubbs The biggest question we all ask when we hear that someone is in an unhealthy relationship is “WHY DON’T YOU JUST LEAVE?!?!” I’ve heard “if that had been me”! I remember my grandmother saying “Baby I promise you if you let him go now, you will look back on all of this and laugh”! Little did …
HERE’S TO YOU: An Open Letter to a Friend
NGSC: Kenita Stubbs I take the time to reflect on a friendship that’s been dear to me since I was in elementary school. It’s a friendship that I don’t have to question any betraying intentions. There have been times when we did not quite agree on things. Also there was distance in our friendship due to relationships, responsibilities, life, and …
Don’t EVER Depend On a Man!!
NGSC: Kenita Stubb There’s a cliché’ that says “everything that glitters is not gold”. I’ve heard women say that they want a rich man or how they would love to marry into money. Well there’s also a cliché that says be “careful what you ask for”. Being kept comes with a price! I’ve always been a self-sufficient woman. I worked …
He Left Me!!
August 25, 2014 NGSC: Kenita Stubbs This time I am not speaking about the man. Though there is a lot to speak about when it comes to that man. I’m talking about my dad; a funny, smart, accomplished man who is a great husband and a wonderful grandfather…. just not to my kids. Why? Because he left me! When I …
Who Says I’m Not Saved??
Friday, August 1, 2014 NGSC: Kenita Stubbs I believe that GOD so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life. I believe that JESUS died on the cross for our sins and I believe that I am a child of GOD! I am a born again …
Should boy/girlfriends get husband/wife benefits?
NGSC: Kenita Stubbs Women, quick question………why do we give husband benefits to boyfriends? Yes, it is said that women are more nurturing, sensitive, caring, attentive, loving, and compassionate. Well guess what? Men have those same characteristics! However, because men are not expected to or required to show that side of them they usually don’t! If these things are not required they …
He MADE me look!
NGSC: Kenita Stubbs “NO HOMO” I often heard my teenage son and his friends say. It would always follow a comment describing an outfit or nice shoes another male had on or when they referred to someone having swag. In other words they were giving a compliment without being mistaken for being gay. Ladies, if you catch me staring at …
Thoughts from a molested mind…
NGSC: Kenita Stubbs There’s nothing like a woman’s body! Curvaceous hips, breast and all; nothing is like it I’m sure! I guess that’s what has men so mesmerized. However, what is so appeasing about a flat chest, bony, bare vagina and no ass at all?? What’s so appealing about a child? Why would an innocent; far from mature and years …
Better get the “Ex-Fax”
NGSC: Kenita Stubbs There is nothing like meeting a man and starting a new relationship! Everything is so good in the beginning and then months later, he changes! That sweet loving man starts to remind you of the last man that let you down. Well, you should have got the “Ex-Fax”! Women, do your research before fully committing. We all …