Bill Cosby’s Accusers Waited Years to Speak Up and So Did I

NGSC: Kenita Stubbs   On Wednesday December 30, 2015, Bill Cosby was faced with a felony charge of aggravated indecent assault. While forty-one percent of Americans said they were unsure if Cosby was guilty, I’m sure the other fifty-nine percent are wondering “WHY NOW?” Years later, why would the alleged victims take so long to speak out? I would like …

Angry Black Woman Chronicles: I Should’ve Gotten Out of Bed Part 3

NGSC: Kenita Stubbs  Today was an example of when good advice goes bad. I know it was unintentional and was out of concern. I always express how hard it is for me to lie in bed. I never really sleep. I really feel as if one of the reasons I do so much and can’t sit still is actually some …

Angry Black Woman Chronicles: I Should’ve Gotten Out of Bed Part 2

NGSC: Kenita Stubbs  How in the hell was I able to be in love and attracted to this person? When he was away on business, I genuinely missed him and longed for him and I was able to be sexually excited. I’d send him pictures of my body hoping he’d rush home and want me just as much as I …

My Ex TRIED It by “Hitting” On My Friend!

NGSC: Kenita Stubbs I would like to start by saying I am not angry nor am I hurt. I would like to just express my current thoughts…… I was recently called FIVE last names and it was intended to be an insult to hurt my feelings. However, it ended up being a tell me something I don’t know laughing matter. …

My Toxic Friendship: I Broke it OFF!

NGSC: Kenita Stubbs    I did it and I am so relieved! It wasn’t done out of spite, nor did it come from a mean spirited place! I had a lifelong friend that I’ve always loved so much.  I know I will forever love her because love does change when it is real. My friend and I had not seen each …

Be “honest, loyal and real” SHUT UP! Yeen bout dat life!

NGSC: Kenita Stubbs    I be keeping it “real”, a buck, #100, on errthing I love!  Deeze bitches ain’t “loyal” and deeze niggas ain’t loyal! I’m jus being “honest,” I jus gotta be honest with myself. I don’t need spell check nor did I forget to make corrections or proof read! I’m just sick and tired of people being just …

Cut the crap! Who are you trying to convince?!?!

NGSC: Kenita Stubbs When all else fails, instead of owning up to your bullshit, you take the easy way out and search for sympathy, pretend to be victimized, use past trials and burdens to compensate for your truth! While you may draw some people to entertain your insecurities and have them play the violins while you sing your self-made personal …

I Felt My Mother’s Pain

NGSC: Kenita Stubbs I’m a mess right now! I pray that I’m able to successfully complete my expressions tonight. Brace yourself because this may be the longest blog I have ever written. Please bear with me. I have been moving and I’m blessed to have a bigger space for less. I’ve been in good spirits aside from being sore and …

If Honesty is the Best Policy, Why Does the Truth Hurt?

NG Social Contributor: Kenita Stubbs I was raised to never lie! I was taught that honesty is the best policy, so why does the truth hurt so badly? We want the truth but the question really is “CAN YOU HANDLE THE TRUTH?” Sometimes I find out things that I really feel as if I was better off not knowing because …