~Shemeka Michelle
The scriptures say it is better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. Well, what about a whiny ass man? The one who is so use to having everything handed to him that he whines and pouts when things don’t go his way. I mean, who died and made you the Entitled One? While I’m typing, let me be a doll and help you out. That is so unattractive! Though women were designed to help and don’t mind being a sounding board, we expect you to be the problem solver. Or at least be a willing participant working towards a solution.
I personally, am not worried about a man taking care of me financially. I’ve had that and it’s not all it’s cracked up to be depending on their attitude. I’m not high maintenance but there are things that I feel are basic requirements. If the light bulb is out, CHANGE IT! If the trash is overflowing, TAKE IT OUT! If my gas tank is empty, FILL IT! If you’re hungry, EAT IT! I mean………find something to eat :-).
Most women enjoy catering to our men. However, we like to believe that is something you like and appreciate. When your attitude comes across like we’re expected to do it, you lose what we use to call “cool points”. Once all of your cool points are gone; simply because you’ve been acting like a BAN (bitch ass nigga), things can go downhill real fast. It really doesn’t matter whether you’re a janitor or a powerful executive; we love it when you take charge NOT when you’re acting like a whiny ass man!