Love & DIVORCE: Excerpt from Upcoming Book!

  Within the first year of us living together and marrying, I lost about 20 lbs. Now that I think about it, my grandma tried to get me to see the red flags; alluding to the fact that the weight loss signified that there was stress in my relationship long before I said “I do”. Like so many other women, …

REAL LOVE! What it means to me.

~NG Guest Blogger~   It’s crazy to know that you love someone; maybe even be in love with them and you know they feel the same about you. The thing is, you will never know how much until they are comfortable to let you know or show you. See ladies, men have been hurt as well. They know all too …

I’m Not Your Superwoman!

The day I no longer wanted to be a wife I knew my life was in trouble My American dream was slipping away My life began to crumble   It wasn’t that I didn’t want to be a Mrs. It wasn’t that I didn’t want my kids It’s that- I wanted me more   I am no one’s maid I …

Dear Black Woman, This Black Man is WALKING OUT THE DOOR!

Dear Black Woman, As an African American man, I have received a hefty dose of hatred and abuse from many MANY African American women my whole life! By abuse I mean SPIRITUAL & MENTAL. Yet and still I stay and deal with them. I’ve been programmed to think that if I can’t take the abuse, I’m not man enough for …

I Was Willing to KILL for A Man That Didn’t Want Me!

  She ranted that I should never pull a gun without using it. She also said if she pulled out her gun, she definitely would! As she continued to make threats, I thought to myself “I have to kill her BEFORE she kills me”! With a gun in my pocket and my finger on the trigger, I was prepared to …

“I Have Trust Issues” The Ultimate Drama Queen Statement!

  Ladies, men absolutely hate when you constantly accuse them of things they aren’t doing! How do I know? Because we absolutely hate that shit too! Charissa Jones said it best; “the only thing worse than an insecure woman is an insecure ass man”! If I hear one more person throw around the term “I have trust issues”, I just may …

NAKED!

Guest Blogger: Lasonja Marie Stroke my mind No really stroke it harder Stimulate my thoughts Intrigue my brain Wipe the crust from my eye Yes, that’s right the one inside Talk that talk to me So my imagination can ignite And my heart can proceed Proceed to follow As I swallow my pride And become vulnerable Give you my heart …

Men if Your Lady Won’t Have Sex, She Doesn’t Like You!

~Shemeka Michelle Why is “to have sex with your man or not have sex with your man” still a RELATIONSHIP topic?? Ladies, take it from me, withholding sex from your man to keep him in line is the dumbest theory created. Yet it seems it’s a theory that just won’t die. This type of thinking is amateur and immature. I …

Angry Black Woman Chronicles: I Should’ve Gotten Out of Bed Part 3

NGSC: Kenita Stubbs  Today was an example of when good advice goes bad. I know it was unintentional and was out of concern. I always express how hard it is for me to lie in bed. I never really sleep. I really feel as if one of the reasons I do so much and can’t sit still is actually some …

Angry Black Woman Chronicles: I Should’ve Gotten Out of Bed Part 2

NGSC: Kenita Stubbs  How in the hell was I able to be in love and attracted to this person? When he was away on business, I genuinely missed him and longed for him and I was able to be sexually excited. I’d send him pictures of my body hoping he’d rush home and want me just as much as I …