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Dear White Women, F#*K You and Your #DayWithoutAWoman

Dear White Women, You are so fucking insecure! That was the first thought that came to my head when I heard about a #DayWithoutAWoman. My second thought was “What do White women in America have to complain about?” You yell about pay inequality, but I’ve yet to hear you complain about the fact that on average, your income is higher …

Gays Are the New Bullies! Ask Kim Burrell

~Shemeka Michelle There’s a portion of a sermon that was recently preached by Kim Burrell, a popular celebrity preacher, making its way across the internet. Where I’m from, the church would’ve been filled with “Amen” and “Go ‘head on” as can be heard in the recording. Others would’ve gone on to declare that Kim Burrell walked the dog! That’s popular …

I’m Not Your Superwoman!

The day I no longer wanted to be a wife I knew my life was in trouble My American dream was slipping away My life began to crumble   It wasn’t that I didn’t want to be a Mrs. It wasn’t that I didn’t want my kids It’s that- I wanted me more   I am no one’s maid I …

I’m Not 20 Years Old Anymore and My How Things Have Changed!

~Shemeka Michelle    The older I get the more things seem to change. Things that concerned me when I was twenty years old are no longer a priority. There are also some things that I overlooked at twenty that I can NOT ignore now.   At 20 I cared about the shoes a man wore. Now I care more about …

The Academy Awards: Dear Black Hollywood, We DON’T Care!

~Shemeka Michelle I am so over all of this talk about this year’s Academy Awards. Are black people really JUST seeing the fuckery that’s been happening for years??  Why are members of black Hollywood just deciding to speak out? Is it based on personal snubs? Because CERTAINLY I’m not the only one that has noticed that according to the academy, …

How 50 Cent Proved Vivica Fox Right!

~Shemeka Michelle   Recently on the hit Bravo show “Watch What Happens Live”, actress Vivica Fox made statements that insinuated that her ex-boyfriend; famous rapper and mogul Curtis 50 Cent Jackson may be gay. Social Media was in an uproar over a magazine cover that’s actually five years old. That cover photo along with various memes started to trend over …

I Felt My Mother’s Pain

NGSC: Kenita Stubbs I’m a mess right now! I pray that I’m able to successfully complete my expressions tonight. Brace yourself because this may be the longest blog I have ever written. Please bear with me. I have been moving and I’m blessed to have a bigger space for less. I’ve been in good spirits aside from being sore and …

DAMN! MY SISTER’S GAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  Disclaimer: This blog was written by my daughter who is only 10 years old. Although I don’t condone cursing, I let her type and release her true feelings as I know that writing is therapeutic for me. I allowed her to express herself so we can accept what is and move forward as a family. These are her words …

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We Had Sex for 15 Years and We Still Can’t Communicate

It amazes me that men and women can marry, swap spit and have sex for years then end up disliking each other. What blows my mind even more is when two people decide they are no longer compatible; somehow it means they shouldn’t communicate. I think that is complete bullshit! If I can take a moment as a blogger to …