I’m Not Your Superwoman!

The day I no longer wanted to be a wife I knew my life was in trouble My American dream was slipping away My life began to crumble   It wasn’t that I didn’t want to be a Mrs. It wasn’t that I didn’t want my kids It’s that- I wanted me more   I am no one’s maid I …

Dear Black Woman, This Black Man is WALKING OUT THE DOOR!

Dear Black Woman, As an African American man, I have received a hefty dose of hatred and abuse from many MANY African American women my whole life! By abuse I mean SPIRITUAL & MENTAL. Yet and still I stay and deal with them. I’ve been programmed to think that if I can’t take the abuse, I’m not man enough for …

I Was Willing to KILL for A Man That Didn’t Want Me!

  She ranted that I should never pull a gun without using it. She also said if she pulled out her gun, she definitely would! As she continued to make threats, I thought to myself “I have to kill her BEFORE she kills me”! With a gun in my pocket and my finger on the trigger, I was prepared to …

“I Have Trust Issues” The Ultimate Drama Queen Statement!

  Ladies, men absolutely hate when you constantly accuse them of things they aren’t doing! How do I know? Because we absolutely hate that shit too! Charissa Jones said it best; “the only thing worse than an insecure woman is an insecure ass man”! If I hear one more person throw around the term “I have trust issues”, I just may …

Some Women Actually Have Nothing to Offer Men…

  I was scrolling Instagram and came across a thought provoking post.  To sum it up, it was basically talking about the women that complain that all a man wants is pussy. It made a profound suggestion that for some women; pussy is ALL they have to offer! With that said, women, what does your Good Woman resume’ look like? …

Bill Cosby’s Accusers Were NOT Innocent Victims!

~Shemeka Michelle I just spent hours reading the accusations from 35 of the women who have come forth with allegations of sexual assault and/or rape against Bill Cosby. While it is not my intention to demean or defame their character, I can’t understand why America didn’t see most of their stories as utter bullshit! I will probably catch all kinds …

Bill Cosby’s Accusers Waited Years to Speak Up and So Did I

NGSC: Kenita Stubbs   On Wednesday December 30, 2015, Bill Cosby was faced with a felony charge of aggravated indecent assault. While forty-one percent of Americans said they were unsure if Cosby was guilty, I’m sure the other fifty-nine percent are wondering “WHY NOW?” Years later, why would the alleged victims take so long to speak out? I would like …

5 Ways to Co-Parent Effectively

~Shemeka Michelle   After divorcing almost three years ago, my co-parent and I are doing a great job if I must say so myself. While we don’t ALWAYS see eye to eye, it’s clear that we both love our children and want the best for them. Sometimes people marvel at our relationship; often asking if we’re getting back together. I …

The Rise of the Effeminate “Straight” Male

~Shemeka Michelle    Effeminate – (of a man) having or showing characteristics regarded as typical of a woman; unmanly. Many men have taken a liking to the term metrosexual. There are a lot of men in today’s society that take pride in extreme grooming, shopping sprees and standing in the mirror admiring oneself for hours on end. For many women …

Can You Handle My Naked Thoughts???

Guest Blogger: The Naked Gentleman    I desire to make your insides glow as a storm is brewin’ outside; as two bodies hungry for serious sensuality. All of my senses are heightened and cravin’ the sight, touch, taste, smell, and sounds of a woman who I am completely in-tuned to pleasuring my every nerve-ending. You ready? Allow my fingertips to …