I’m Not Your Superwoman!

The day I no longer wanted to be a wife I knew my life was in trouble My American dream was slipping away My life began to crumble   It wasn’t that I didn’t want to be a Mrs. It wasn’t that I didn’t want my kids It’s that- I wanted me more   I am no one’s maid I …

Dear Black Woman, This Black Man is WALKING OUT THE DOOR!

Dear Black Woman, As an African American man, I have received a hefty dose of hatred and abuse from many MANY African American women my whole life! By abuse I mean SPIRITUAL & MENTAL. Yet and still I stay and deal with them. I’ve been programmed to think that if I can’t take the abuse, I’m not man enough for …

“I Have Trust Issues” The Ultimate Drama Queen Statement!

  Ladies, men absolutely hate when you constantly accuse them of things they aren’t doing! How do I know? Because we absolutely hate that shit too! Charissa Jones said it best; “the only thing worse than an insecure woman is an insecure ass man”! If I hear one more person throw around the term “I have trust issues”, I just may …

Some Women Actually Have Nothing to Offer Men…

  I was scrolling Instagram and came across a thought provoking post.  To sum it up, it was basically talking about the women that complain that all a man wants is pussy. It made a profound suggestion that for some women; pussy is ALL they have to offer! With that said, women, what does your Good Woman resume’ look like? …

Angry Black Woman Chronicles: I Should’ve Gotten Out of Bed Part 2

NGSC: Kenita Stubbs  How in the hell was I able to be in love and attracted to this person? When he was away on business, I genuinely missed him and longed for him and I was able to be sexually excited. I’d send him pictures of my body hoping he’d rush home and want me just as much as I …

5 Ways to Co-Parent Effectively

~Shemeka Michelle   After divorcing almost three years ago, my co-parent and I are doing a great job if I must say so myself. While we don’t ALWAYS see eye to eye, it’s clear that we both love our children and want the best for them. Sometimes people marvel at our relationship; often asking if we’re getting back together. I …

ONE Relationship Red Flag You Should Never Ignore

~Shemeka Michelle    INSECURITY – uncertainty or anxiety about oneself; lack of confidence. I’m amazed that the definition reads “anxiety about oneself”. What’s even more amazing to me is how this anxiety and lack of confidence can be transferrable in relationships. When you’re in a relationship with a person that is insecure, they may ask a question that appears as …

My Ex TRIED It by “Hitting” On My Friend!

NGSC: Kenita Stubbs I would like to start by saying I am not angry nor am I hurt. I would like to just express my current thoughts…… I was recently called FIVE last names and it was intended to be an insult to hurt my feelings. However, it ended up being a tell me something I don’t know laughing matter. …

I Sued My Ex Husband for Half and I Don’t Regret It!

~Shemeka Michelle Many women marry, divorce and walk away with nothing. I think many of them feel as if they have something to prove by leaving everything behind and starting over from scratch. I actually had a woman tell me prior to my divorce that there were nights she and her children had to share cans of beans and weenies. …