Gays Are the New Bullies! Ask Kim Burrell

~Shemeka Michelle There’s a portion of a sermon that was recently preached by Kim Burrell, a popular celebrity preacher, making its way across the internet. Where I’m from, the church would’ve been filled with “Amen” and “Go ‘head on” as can be heard in the recording. Others would’ve gone on to declare that Kim Burrell walked the dog! That’s popular …

REAL LOVE! What it means to me.

~NG Guest Blogger~   It’s crazy to know that you love someone; maybe even be in love with them and you know they feel the same about you. The thing is, you will never know how much until they are comfortable to let you know or show you. See ladies, men have been hurt as well. They know all too …

I’m Not Your Superwoman!

The day I no longer wanted to be a wife I knew my life was in trouble My American dream was slipping away My life began to crumble   It wasn’t that I didn’t want to be a Mrs. It wasn’t that I didn’t want my kids It’s that- I wanted me more   I am no one’s maid I …

Dear Black Woman, This Black Man is WALKING OUT THE DOOR!

Dear Black Woman, As an African American man, I have received a hefty dose of hatred and abuse from many MANY African American women my whole life! By abuse I mean SPIRITUAL & MENTAL. Yet and still I stay and deal with them. I’ve been programmed to think that if I can’t take the abuse, I’m not man enough for …

“I Have Trust Issues” The Ultimate Drama Queen Statement!

  Ladies, men absolutely hate when you constantly accuse them of things they aren’t doing! How do I know? Because we absolutely hate that shit too! Charissa Jones said it best; “the only thing worse than an insecure woman is an insecure ass man”! If I hear one more person throw around the term “I have trust issues”, I just may …

Some Women Actually Have Nothing to Offer Men…

  I was scrolling Instagram and came across a thought provoking post.  To sum it up, it was basically talking about the women that complain that all a man wants is pussy. It made a profound suggestion that for some women; pussy is ALL they have to offer! With that said, women, what does your Good Woman resume’ look like? …

ONE Relationship Red Flag You Should Never Ignore

~Shemeka Michelle    INSECURITY – uncertainty or anxiety about oneself; lack of confidence. I’m amazed that the definition reads “anxiety about oneself”. What’s even more amazing to me is how this anxiety and lack of confidence can be transferrable in relationships. When you’re in a relationship with a person that is insecure, they may ask a question that appears as …

I Sued My Ex Husband for Half and I Don’t Regret It!

~Shemeka Michelle Many women marry, divorce and walk away with nothing. I think many of them feel as if they have something to prove by leaving everything behind and starting over from scratch. I actually had a woman tell me prior to my divorce that there were nights she and her children had to share cans of beans and weenies. …

Dear John: Letter to a Man

Every now and then you’ll come across a woman that seems like she’s connected to your soul. She will make you laugh, encourage you when you feel weak, push you to be the best you can be and the sex will be some of the best sex you’ve ever had. For some of you, this will happen only once in …