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BREAKING THE MOLD!

NGSC: Lasonja Marie   Sometimes I wonder whatever happened to me The older I got I disconnected from the things I love And I became who people wanted to see me be Sometimes you can get so far gone in the ideas of others and what they believe you are That you forget about who you are I’ve spent years …

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Dear White Women, F#*K You and Your #DayWithoutAWoman

Dear White Women, You are so fucking insecure! That was the first thought that came to my head when I heard about a #DayWithoutAWoman. My second thought was “What do White women in America have to complain about?” You yell about pay inequality, but I’ve yet to hear you complain about the fact that on average, your income is higher …

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Black Women Don’t Like Being Black!

~Shemeka Michelle Dafucq! I can’t take it anymore. Some people will say I have no right to stand in judgment of Lil’ Kim and her constant skin bleaching. However, it’s MY blog and I’ll express my opinion if I want to! I will not sit by quietly while I watch black women promote self-hate as being fabulous! I’m not sure …

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My 11-year Old Daughter Wants Butt Implants

  My daughter walked in my room and asked me how she looked. Then she hopped up on my bed so that she could see a full body image of herself in the mirror on my dresser. She had on jeggings that were obviously stuffed to make her butt look bigger. I laughed and shook my head but she was …

I’m a Riot Starter!

  Hi Guyz and Girlz, Shemeka Michelle had the wonderful opportunity to interview with international trainer, consultant and coach, Dr. Taunya Lowe. Click the link below and be prepared to be encouraged and empowered! Learn how you can start a riot in your own life! Listen now. http://theriotstarterchat.drtaunyalowe.com/podcasts/episode-025-shameka-michelle/     Don’t miss future post. Subscribe now! [mc4wp_form id=”879″]

Some Women Actually Have Nothing to Offer Men…

  I was scrolling Instagram and came across a thought provoking post.  To sum it up, it was basically talking about the women that complain that all a man wants is pussy. It made a profound suggestion that for some women; pussy is ALL they have to offer! With that said, women, what does your Good Woman resume’ look like? …

America’s Obsession with Being PHAT!

~Shemeka Michelle    I’m not exactly sure when I first heard the word PHAT. It was probably in middle school used by a group of semi-cool (hahaha don’t try and come for me) guys that called themselves the Bally Boys. They made it very clear that it wasn’t the usual fat that meant overweight. There was no guessing that for …

I’m Not 20 Years Old Anymore and My How Things Have Changed!

~Shemeka Michelle    The older I get the more things seem to change. Things that concerned me when I was twenty years old are no longer a priority. There are also some things that I overlooked at twenty that I can NOT ignore now.   At 20 I cared about the shoes a man wore. Now I care more about …

Dear Woman: Are You Damaged Goods??

~Shemeka Michelle    Recently I was asked this exact question by a potential suitor. Though it may offend a lot of women, I wasn’t at all offended. If truth be told, during times of reflection, I’ve often asked myself this same question. For a long time, I actually thought that I was. I’m a former stripper, very promiscuous in my …

ONE Relationship Red Flag You Should Never Ignore

~Shemeka Michelle    INSECURITY – uncertainty or anxiety about oneself; lack of confidence. I’m amazed that the definition reads “anxiety about oneself”. What’s even more amazing to me is how this anxiety and lack of confidence can be transferrable in relationships. When you’re in a relationship with a person that is insecure, they may ask a question that appears as …